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I am a strange kid. When I was very little, I'd spend a lot of time listening to people, listening, and trying to make sense of things around me. Whenever you do this, you start to realize that lots of things in the world don't make sense.
For me and lots of people, it is a rough process realizing the people they look up to are full of shit. I grew up being very conservative with my family, and I bought into the "common sense" kind of arguments by modern Catholics. I have walked the path to meet the liberal views of the smart people around me, and seen the same naivety in different ways. This blog is very unfocused because there is really no one side to fight for anymore.
So, do you seize the day? Do you live every moment as if it were your last? It always could be. This blog is for varying audiences, but another one is those who are as pissed off as I am about all the bad advice out there. Your role model might spit out something like "Just be yourself!" Then when someone puts this into practice, they might indulge in all the bad habits they've accumulated and expect things to work out.
No advice should be taken on its own. It's like eating only oatmeal all week because you heard it's healthy, and then spending hours on the toilet with agonizing constipation. THE main problem with the world is human beings running around, assuming they are more wise than anyone else because they follow that one good peice of advice grandpa gave.
Carpe Diem is the one that saturates my environment the most. I'm not the most social person, because what tends to happen is I'm observing people instead of engaging. The reason I have a hard time socializing is hardly anyone can carry a conversation. Occasionally I'll get lucky and talk about something viably interesting for ten minutes with someone at a party, but then it's soon interrupted by something as trivial, insidious, and distracting as a cigarette break. One possible explanation for this is that they started living for the moment under the wrong impression. Too many people see this as embracing addictions or not setting goals. Too many people around me are still behaving a lot like carpet-crawling infants who decided to forget learning how to walk because "fuck that, I'm going to live for the moment." Having an eclectic taste or lifestyle simply means containing parts from different sources. This doesn't mean you have to find a new band every day to add to your iTunes library. Similarly, living in the moment doesn't mean you have to be doing something different from second to second. It means you indulge and expand each moment, which includes consecutive moments. I am living for the moment when I watch my favorite films, paying close attention to what's going on and enjoying it without interruption.
Liberals suck. I blogged before about how the liberal mindset stands for progress and conservativism holds us back for nostalgia. I apologize for not expressing the other end at the same time. Being open to change does not create change. The saying "so open-minded your brain falls out" goes a long way here. If all you do is listen to everyone and give them a pat on the back, you've programmed yourself as a robot. You're the air-freshener in the toilet that makes people feel better about what they did. What is the use of being all-inclusive? Whenever I see a "Coexist" sticker, I see a variety of interchangeable symbols.

Diversity does not equal positivity. Hell, we have a very diverse selection of diseases to choose from, yet we descriminate and try to limit these. Read some of the Greek Epictetus's philosophy. He resembled Lao Tzu, saying all things here are part of a whole and we shouldn't try to change things out of our control. For example, Epictetus would advise parents to love their children in an abstract, Platonic essence kind of way. When you say "I love children" or "I love women," it takes the place of the individual so that if they were to die, you would not waste time mourning over the loss. It's the same as loving pottery, but when your bowl breaks it's fine because there's more in the cupboard.
There may be some logic to this, but if you regard all things as equal, you set yourself up for problems. This is an obvious point in this narrow context, but so few people apply the same standards to all things in life.
Not all advice is worth the breath used to tell it. Some can effectively aid you through life. To fully exploit this soapbox, the best peice of advice someone has ever given me came from a head chef at a restaurant where I worked. Speaking of my work ethic, he said:
"Whatever you are here is whatever you will be at any other place."
People maintain their personalities, but the world changes because it is indifferent and unconsciously manipulated by life forms. Especially if you are now a young adult, the way you spend your day mirrors on some level what kind of life you will live.
But over all, wisdom is flexibility and a capacity to assess things on their own terms. I argue that it is dangerous to trust a religion to dictate your approach to life. More specifically, no single peice of advice should be your personal motto.


